Was Our Niece a Target of Kidnappers in Cebu?

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After a recent event in “The Queen City of the South,” my wife and I have to wonder: “Was Our Niece a Target of Kidnappers in Cebu?”

We had taken our elementary-school-aged niece and nephew to Cebu City with us a month after traveling there for a week-long vacation.  Since my asawa needed a (free) touch-up for her eyebrow tattoo done in Cebu, we decided to take our niece, Amiel,  and nephew, Jorreale,  along with us. The kids had never been to the Queen City and haven’t  traveled on such a large ship as the one we used for our journey.

I had purchased several “prankster” items, such as the exploding snake in a Cheese Ball container and “squirting gum” that really had impressed the youngsters. I bought the items at a store called “Tickles” in Ayala Mall in Cebu City. This was the first time I had ever seen such gags for sale at any outlet in the almost past seven years I have lived in the Philippines.

Ayala, though not nearly as massive in size as the new SM Seaside Mall we visited, still has several shops, like ISIS, seen in the picture below, and a hardware store chain not available at SM Malls in the Philippines.

ISIS in Cebu City

(“IN STORE, IN STYLE” not your neighborhood terrorist organization, and yes, everyone always comments on the store’s name, yours truly included.)

At this American-based hardware outlet, I picked up several items not available at our local Ace Hardware joints in nearby Iloilo City, such as a motion-detector ceiling light we could use for my father-in-law’s nipa hut. I soon noticed a young dark-skinned Filipina, maybe 10 years old, staring at me, standing at the end of the aisle.

I’m used to getting stared at the Philippines. If I had a peso for every time I got a look or was called “Hey, Joe!”, I’d be richer than Donald Trump.

But the girl was starting to annoy me and kept following us. I was about ready to say something to the waif but we were done shopping and headed for the cashier. There was no apparent parent or guardian with the young girl.

“Did you know that girl put her hand on Amiel’s shoulder, said ‘hi,’ and that she wanted to be Amiel’s friend?” my wife asked. “She also kept following the kids everywhere and was motioning for Amiel to go with her.”

As usual, I was clueless. I had gone to another part of the store leaving my asawa to watch our niece and nephew as we never let them out of our sight during our entire visit to Cebu City. If I had known this was going on, I would have certainly told the kid to hit the road in no uncertain terms.

“The girl saw you were an American. I believe she could have been working for a syndicate and was going to kidnap Amiel, “ my wife announced.

“You could be right,” I replied.

Now before you think my spouse and I are both being too paranoid consider the fact that human trafficking is a huge problem in the Philippines.

The Philippines ranks fourth among nine nations with the most number of children trafficked for prostitution, according to the Consortium Against Trafficking of Children and Women for Sexual Exploitation.

In the Visayas, the region we reside in, Cebu has been the destination of international and domestic trafficking of children, aged from 11 to 17, who are from Samar, Bohol, Leyte, Negros and Bacolod. Cebu is now considered one of the top five areas for child prostitution and sex tourism. (Source: gvnet.com)

As with any port city, especially one with commercial ports of any size,  human trafficking is always a possibility and most often a distinct probability.

Paranoid? Maybe. But you can bet we continued to keep a close eye on our young charges the remainder of our trip to Cebu City.

Author: The Kano

POST AUTHOR: "THE KANO" aka "THE CRUSTY OLD EXPAT." Dave DeWall, "The Kano", is the Publisher & Editor-in-Chief of "Philippines Plus" in publication since August 2009. He is also the CEO of Lizard Poop Productions and author of the best-selling guide book "The Philippines Expat Advisor." Dave moved to the Philippines in July 2009 from Central Illinois with his lovely wife of over 19 years, "The Sainted Patient Wife." The couple reside in a rural province in Western Visayas, Guimaras. The small island province is said to have the sweetest mangoes in the world. They do not have any children but are the proud owners of eight active canines, including a Belgian Shepherd called "Killer" "Killer" has bitten five people in the last two years along with one goat and a carabao. "Killer" doesn't like strangers. Or goats. Or carabaos.

12 thoughts on “Was Our Niece a Target of Kidnappers in Cebu?

  1. Hi Dave, I don’t think you were paranoid you see this everyday on the news better be safe than sorry, yesterday’s news on abs cbn a Brit was caught running a sex den in the Philippines, I hope that he rots in jail I think the minimum jail is 16 years
    For that then deportation I hope he enjoys everyday in prison, rant over been to the
    Doctors have high sugar levels and a fatty liver I’m now on a diet no alcohol, soft drinks, Fried food, give me a months tablets for the fatty liver said it was common
    At my age it’s more fun in the Philippines Dave,
    Derek in pasig.

    1. I agree with you, Derek, hope the guy spends a long time in jail and makes some new unpleasant friends.

      I had a bout with fatty liver disease almost two years ago, Derek. Don’t know if you caught that post or not.

      I lost about 20 pounds and also severely restricted my alcohol and soft drink consumption. I got a clean bill of health a few months later. It is common but when I first got the diagnosis, I was alarmed. Take care.

  2. Sorry to hear this.I know it’s a problem in Philippines.Here too.We have in our province a former advisor on school sex ed(!)now in jail for child porn.Even members of the RCMP have been involved in similar scandals.What can we do,except punish the offenders severely…but under our liberal laws they get a few years,and then they’re back on the streets.Joe.

    1. Wasn’t aware about the problem with the RCMP, Joe, surprised to hear that. Well, unfortunately the Catholic Church has been one of the biggest offenders of predators as many priests have gone unpunished for decades. Incoming President Duterte is threatening to reveal the names of Catholic bishops who are married and those that have mistresses.

  3. Holy shit! That is scary. The best defense against something like this is to teach the kids really well. Absolutely do NOT go with anyone you do not trust 100%.

    Fight, kick, scream…do whatever you have to do NOW to get away and cause a huge commotion.

    And of course there is strength in numbers. You cannot be with the kids 24/7 so they are the best line of defense.

    I am really happy nothing bad happened here. God, that is scary.

    1. I have to admit I’ve become somewhat complacent, Todd. Of course Melinda was always with the kids or myself, but I guess we both should have stayed together. The more I think about it, the more I think my niece was being targeted and yes, you’re right, education is the key.

      Three recent daylight parking lot robberies in the big malls we frequent in Iloilo City. Have to keep your guard up, no matter where you live.

  4. Thats one of the bad things about the Philippines for sure. In Cebu, I have been approached quite a few times by totally naked little kids begging for money. Our friends that live there have told me that I can be arrested if I was seen giving money to them. They told me that most of the young children that are doing this are working for adults who make them do it, and that all money they collect the adults take from them. How pathetic can people be?

    1. Your friends are right, Bill S. The kids that approached you could very well be working for a syndicate. The kids are often beaten if they don’t collect enough money and in some cases, the parents have sold their own children to these syndicates. There’s a special place in hell for those parents and for those gang members.

      In Iloilo City, there is also a law about giving money to panhandlers. It also illegal to beg there but enforcement there is extremely sketchy.

  5. My wife says her late father,who was from Cebu,always warned her as a child about this.It has always been a problem there,and always will be as long as we have poverty and human predators.Joe.

    1. Unfortunately, Joe, your asawa’s late Father was probably alright. While we have thoroughly enjoyed our past visits to Cebu, any future travels to the “Queen City of the South” will be done with a heightened sense of awareness.

  6. Dave,
    Reading this reminded me that I sent you a private email a month or so ago at the contact address post on this website and I never received a response. There is a YouTube video that has your picture on it as the first thing you see. I assume you didn’t get the email since it is still up. If it was my picture I would be a little pissed to say the least.
    I thought you should know.
    Long time reader of your website. Great job on the house by the way!

    Regards,
    Brian

    1. Brian, I sincerely apologize for not responding to your earlier email. I rarely check any emails to my contact page anymore and have changed the contact page information.

      I have responded to you personally regarding the video. I have sent a request to have the video taken down. I SINCERELY thank you for pointing this out to me and really appreciate your support of this website. Take care.

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