From the Midwest redneck author of "The Rooster Crows at 4am!," "Lizard Poop!," and "The Philippines Expat Advisor"
Lots of Ladyboys and Scammers on DateinAsia!
Do I have an obsession with ladyboys in the Philippines? Rest assured, I am a heterosexual happily married to a beautiful Filipina. But as I was researching dating sites and scammers in the Philippines, DateinAsia, kept popping up in my Google search. You can view who is online without becoming a member or registering, so I did a search and found a bunch of ladyboys on the Philippines that were "online now" and looking for love. It was kind of scary!
STOP SENDING INDECENT AND VULGAR MESSAGES!
Ok, sounds like she has had some bad experiences from some nasty guys. Well, here's the profile picture she posted:
Hmmm, well, she didn't show a lot of cleavage like some of the girls on DateinAsia did (not that I noticed), but I would suggest that if she did not want any more indecent or vulgar messages, she might want to change that profile picture.
The next girl has a problem with perverts, and displayed "No perverts, please!" on her profile. That's her picture on the right.
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se me, but I think if she showed a little less cleavage, that might also reduce the number of her pervert messages, but that's just my opinion. Now that doesn't excuse someone that is sending inappropriate messages, but don't you think you might exercise a little bit better judgment when posting such a profile picture?
Another cute Filipina displayed her bank account number online and was asking for funds so she could go to school! Her profile stated she was "to ho to handle," I guess she meant "too hot," but then again, "ho" might be more appropriate.
Ok, let's move on to the ladyboys. There must have been at least a dozen or more ladyboys online from the Philippines when I checked the DateinAsia site. I must admit, they were all honest about who they were and did not try to hide that information. Here are just a few of the photos they posted.
Well, it was an interesting visit to this Asian dating site. I believe some of the Filipinas seeking a boyfriend or mate were sincere, but it's hard for me judge how many really were. As one exasperated cute Filipina headlined on her profile:
"Are there no true people here? why are there so many liars and scrammers..??????"
I feel sorry for the young ladies that were really seeking their true love, but I don't know what kind of chances they have online with this particular site. Best wishes for the sincere ones, but for those, including any guys trying to mislead or trick these ladies from the Philippines, I wish they would just leave this dating site and let the sincere ones find their soul mate. It is possible to find a future partner online, but as it's been repeated here often, exercise some caution and good common sense. Who knows, you might just find your dream Filipina! Or ladyboy!
Hi Dave,
I talked to a scammer who had something about no vulgar comments or men looking for porn. I think some of them use that as a way to get men feeling sorry for them and who will try to prove that they are not like that.
Excellent point, Richard D! I never thought of that angle, but I bet you’re right.
Date In Asia has a Tagum City only web site. I tell you it is hard to tell the ladys from the boys at times. Where do the guys get the money for the boob jobs? Scammers? You will find them on every dating service on the internet.
I used a service to meet Meriam. That has turned out VERY well. With that being said some man just like boys better. I don’t understand it and don’t care to try to understand.
73 de kb0ni AKA Gary
Gary, I have absolutely NO idea where those “guys” get the money for the boob jobs. Some of them make very convincing women. And it’s true, you’ll find scammers on every site. I’ll be doing more “investigative” reporting on other sites in the future.
Glad you were fortunate to meet your Meriam. I used a pen pal service to meet my asawa, Melinda, over 11 years ago. I’m curious if anyone out there has met their wife through an online dating website. I know some of my readers have made comments to that effect. There are some really nice, sincere girls out there. Too bad the scammers and the bonehead guys that try to take advantage of the good ones are out there.
Dave..I was gonna link a fun one up..but I quess its to hot..won’t link here…..But! I think its church approved!
It could be the site has some code in it that will not let you link the url? The dirty ???????????????????? s
Oh..I did not mean your site Dave……I meant the site that had the fun on it……
aha..it is your site….Dave……I tryed it else where and works like a champ..
Well, Dan, if’s church-approved it should be OK. Don’t know why it won’t link, but thanks anyway.
Did you check to see if the video is on YouTube, Dan? That’s where I get all my videos for this website.
I didn’t take offense, Dan. I see another comment from you, and see it’s my site. That’s under the control of my Webmaster Supreme, and I don’t mess with the controls much here.
Sorry, Dan. Like I commented earlier, that’s in my Webmaster’s domain, I don’t mess with the website much.
Hi Dave, a read on a PI newspaper some years back about a Kano who demanded an annulment 24 hours after the wedding on the grounds that the “essential pre-requisites of the marriage were not there”. She was a he!! But really, if you’re engaged, you’d think you’d be doing some touch feely over there and if there were unexplained bulges, well….
I will PM you some more about this topic.
Ha ha, well, what a surprise that guy got, huh, Christin? Glad my wife that I had not met before I arrived in the Philippines and married four days later didn’t have the same surprise for me. That’s funny (well, not to the guy, I suppose.) Thanks for the story.
Also, these ladyboys has to take estrogens (the female hormones) and lots of it to enhance their feminizing appearance and reduce the masculine features. That’s expensive stuff in the Philippines. I’ve always wondered how they can afford that?
Couple of years ago at Metro Cebu was this gorgeous looking “woman”. Were it not for her companions doing “ooohhs” and “aahhs” on “her” new boobs, I would be none the wiser! Except of course her implants stuck out like huge melons a’la Victoria Beckham.
Ahhh, estrogens, OK, Christine, that explains it, but it is a good question”"How can they afford that?” Well, I don’t think I probably want to know the answer, however.
Well, sounds like the “woman” in Cebu was getting quite a lot of attention. But you’re right, the fake ones do stand out. Personally, I prefer the “real deal” myself! Luckily, my asawa was very blessed in that department (good thing she doesn’t read my website! She claims to be so shy!)
Here you go guys, take the lady boy test. You must be honest and post your score here. Me, I got 7 out of 10.
http://www.bangkokdiaries.com/can-you-tell-the-difference-between-a-thai-lady-and-a-thai-ladyboy/
Well, I only got 6 out of 10 right, Christine. Good thing I’m a happily married man not on the prowl!
Awww, Dave, I’m dissappointed
What can I say, Christine? I worked at a dept. store in Las Vegas years ago. A beautiful customer walked in. I was falling all over myself to help her since I was single guy in a city of gorgeous women. After she left, my boss came over to me. He said “didn’t you notice the big hands and adam’s apple?” Seems my “she” was a “he!”
Dave, ha,ha! that was funny! Lucky your wife found you first
Yep, good thing she did, Christine!
Meriam and I went to the Davao Del Northe capital yesterday. Met a lady there that met her German boyfriend on DateInAsia. It seems that he is working 3 jobs to support her. He has built her a house, is sending her 4 kids to school. All sorts of stuff. Yes she is still married but her boyfriend is her true love. When it came down to getting the paperworks we needed she said that for only 650 pesos we could have it Monday…or we could wait 6 months to get it. Meriam just smiled and said we would like it Monday. What a gal this woman was.
Gary
Hi Dave,
I met my wife through Cherry Blossom. We talked some for 5 months before we got serious.
Dave,
Cherry Blossoms is where I met Meriam. Happy days!
Gary
Great story, Gary. I guess the German and the Filipina are in love, what can I say. And you bet, I’ll pay that 650 pesos to get that paperwork on Monday versus six months any day. Gotta love the Philippines!
I think Cherry Blossoms is much more reputable than a lot of the sites I’ve seen, Gary. I set up my wife’s best friend from the Philippines there when she was an OFW in Hong Kong. She’s married to a great guy now in Columbus, Ohio, and has a small child.
Sounds like I’m getting some positive feedback on Cherry Blossoms, Richard. I did a quick search of their site the other day and didn’t find any lady boys, and the profiles that the ladies displayed seemed a much better tone than what I saw on DateinAsia.
Meriam and I have set up Jhona and and friend on Cherry Blossoms. If any of you kanos are looking then let me know. Young and pretty, Christian and the friend is a Baptist Bible Woman. Meriam almost gave me a punch when I was taking her photos. This lady looks good, very good.
Dave
Met my g/f in Date in Asia. She is the real deal. I’ve dealt with a few scammers and ladyboys on the site. There very easy to spot.
Gary, I have a best friend back in the States living in Kansas City. He’s a Bible-believing good Christian guy that recently told me he would be interested in meeting some nice Filipinas. He’s been on the same job for 20 years. He’s an old geezer like me, 59 (you’re a young 73, Gary, Rocky and I haven’t aged as well.)
Good for you, Randy! It just broke my heart when I looked at that site, because I could tell there were a lot of sincere young ladies looking for true love. The ladyboys were easy to spot, and most of them posted that info right on their website.
Dave, If your friend is serious then let me know via email and I will send you both of their names. Both are on Cherry Blossoms.
I got the same score Dave. Scares me. I knew a couple of guys from East LA. They picked up a girl and took her for a ride to have some fun with her. Her turned out be a him. Him hit the road at 50 mph. They saw no humor in what they found.
So Meriam tells me she has no trouble telling the girls from the ladyboys. “Ha” I said, “take the test!” She hits the wrong button on the very first photo. “I didn’t mean that” she said. She still got 8 out of 10! How did she do that???
OK, thanks, Gary. I’m waiting for him to send a recent photo of himself, and I’ll let him know.
Seems like we think on similar wavelengths, Gary. I bet that hurt hitting the road at 50 mph!
I found Melyn on filipinaheart.com. Very good site in that if anyone was dishonest or playing, a simple button click would get them banned from the site forever. Tried filipinafriendfinder.com but found way too much nonsense. Melyn’s friends used Cherry Blossoms. I was very happy with filipinaheart. I think they have become filipinacupid.com. I hope they are as strict now as they were back then. I had a really good experience with them. The FriendFinder site was just too big. It was unmanageable. FilipinaHeart was smaller so it was easier to manage.
Melyn’s cousin comes from a Baptist Church in Ormoc Leyte. If you know any guys looking for a Bible thumper, It would be worth connecting with us. Melyn’s cousin was chosen by one of several Baptist guys from North Carolina who traveled to that church in Leyte just to find good Bible girls. Just add me on Facebook. Search my email, johnmthompson@msn.com.
Unfortunately, I think a lot of the girls on the sites are bombarded by guys looking for the wrong thing. I met several who were convinced by other guys that being naughty was the only way to attract someone.
I’ll have to do a review of filipinaheart.com, John. It is filipinacupid.com now as you state. I used to be an affiliate for them, but never garnered any sales so you don’t see their ad posted on my website any longer. But if you recommend them, it sounds like a good place to search for that special someone. Good to hear they have a system in place to ban the scammers.
My wife’s best friend from Guimaras found her American husband on Cherry Blossoms. I would recommend them, also. Thanks for sharing your experiences.
Thanks for the information, John. Bible thumpers can make for a good asawa. Better than getting thumped by a bolo over the head, I can tell you that! Seriously, though, glad you put out that information. If any else knows some Filipinas that might want to chat with some foreigners, please leave a comment or send me an email. I could start a separate feature on my website for these contact. Thanks again, John.
You’re probably right about that, John. The DateinAsia site had a few Filipinas that were advertising themselves as wild or naughty but were definitely in the minority.
Your wife must have a very good eye on details Gary.
I think the first time I took the test, I got 7/10. Most of the guys at work got 7 and 8. A couple of guys got 6. One got 9. Close, but not quite. Yes indeed, some of these Ladyboys are more gorgeous than the women!
As for your question Dave “where do they get the money?”. I think some might work in prostitution, and some of course have proper jobs in sales, hairdressing and massage. And believe it or not, some Kanos do like Ladyboys. But still, Ladyboys are no match to the real thing. A sad story was a distant relation who is a ladyboy and managed to get herself a retired Kano. However, the Kano met a woman and got her pregnant. So now, he flits between the (probably unknowing GF) to the suffering Ladyboy.
what i do not like is the pinays assume any good looking man is a playboy but they make the old fat ugly men the playboys by thinking that and assuming these other guys are so pure, lol…so i guess that’s how they choose. all i get are games from these girls, over 7 years and chatted to over 1,200 so far.
i still didn’t give up though because american women are generally fat, spoiled, into drugs or smoking or tattoos
Earl, I’ll give you credit for hangin in there. Good luck in your search.
With reference to Dateinasia I was on this site for 5 months it’s a nice format too view girls easy too you and chat online BUT
this site allows shemales (MEN) to pose as females with fake photos so annoying if your serious too find a partner, the site seems too allow this but will delete your profile if you send messages of complaint to these men as gays just cry if you do.
It spoils the site for any genuine women there…just a few
I agree with you, Sonny. I’m sure there are a lot of sincere Filipinas on the site along with the posers. Just wish the best of luck for those ladies that are honestly looking for a good mate. I think there are a lot of good ones out there. I know. I married one.